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29 June 2026

Conditional love: Inside the rise of lifestyle clauses in modern prenups – Nick Manners for Spear’s Magazine

Family expert Nick Manners, Partner and Head of the Family Department at Payne Hicks Beach, joins other leading family lawyers to discuss the growing use of “lifestyle clauses” in modern prenups and their limited enforceability in the UK, particularly for personal or behavioural matters.

Read the full article in Spear’s: Inside the rise of lifestyle clauses in modern prenups

Nick’s comments have been reproduced below with kind permission.


Nick Manners, head of the family department at Payne Hicks Beach, agrees that lifestyle clauses are ‘not common’ and are unlikely to be enforced. He points to the case of Sutton v Mishcon de Reya, where the court refused to enforce a cohabitation agreement, which was based on a couple’s “master/slave” sexual fantasies and requirements relating to their dominant-submissive relationship.

Manners adds that clauses pertaining to personal matters – whether sexual practices or physical appearance – are not something with which British judges want to interfere. ‘The English court is pragmatic and is focused on the financial reality,’ he says. ‘It is not a court of morality or a court that polices an individual’s weight.’


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